Your Safety Matters
You deserve to date with confidence. We have built safety into every part of Equal Love, and we want to empower you with knowledge to stay safe — online and offline.
Safe Online Dating
Protect your personal information
Take your time before sharing personal details like your full name, workplace, home address, or phone number. Use our in-app messaging until you feel comfortable and trust the other person.
Trust your instincts
If something feels off about a conversation or a person, trust that feeling. You are never obligated to continue talking to someone. Block and report anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
Watch for red flags
Be cautious of people who pressure you to move off the platform quickly, ask for money, refuse to video call, or whose stories seem inconsistent. These can be signs of scams or catfishing.
Keep your account secure
Use a strong, unique password for your Equal Love account. Never share your login credentials with anyone. Enable two-factor authentication if available.
Meeting in Person
Meet in a public place
For your first few meetings, choose a public location like a cafe, restaurant, or park. Avoid going to a private residence until you know and trust the person well.
Tell someone your plans
Let a trusted friend or family member know where you are going, who you are meeting, and when you expect to be back. Share your live location if possible.
Arrange your own transport
Drive yourself, take public transport, or arrange a ride. This ensures you can leave whenever you want to, without depending on your date.
Stay sober and aware
Keep a clear head, especially on a first date. Be mindful of your drinks and never leave them unattended. You want to be fully present and able to make clear decisions.
Consent is everything
Consent must be enthusiastic, ongoing, and freely given. It can be withdrawn at any time. If you are unsure, ask. A good connection is built on mutual respect.
LGBTIQ+ Safety Considerations
Your identity, your terms
You get to decide when, how, and to whom you disclose your sexual orientation or gender identity. No one has the right to out you, and we never share your identity data with third parties. If someone on the platform threatens to out you, report them immediately.
Travel and location awareness
If you are travelling, be aware that LGBTIQ+ rights vary significantly around the world. Consider hiding your profile or adjusting your visibility settings when in regions where your safety could be at risk.
Dealing with discrimination
Unfortunately, some people may use dating platforms with harmful intent. If you experience homophobia, transphobia, biphobia, or any form of discrimination, report it to us. We enforce a strict zero-tolerance policy.
Reporting Abuse
If you experience or witness harassment, threats, discrimination, or any behaviour that makes you feel unsafe, please report it immediately. You can:
- • Use the report button on any profile or message within the app.
- • Visit our Report page for detailed instructions.
- • Email us directly at info@equal.love.
All reports are reviewed by our team and treated with confidentiality. You will never be penalised for reporting in good faith.
Support Resources
If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services. The following organisations offer support for LGBTIQ+ individuals:
You have every right to date safely and authentically.
We are committed to maintaining a platform where you can be yourself without fear. If there is anything we can do to help you feel safer, reach out. We are here for you.